If you don’t realize, it is an inside joke in the FIRE

canada goose There's a community of people who retire in their 30s and 40s, and they use an obscene inside joke to congratulate each other Hillary Hoffower Sep. 12, 2018, 10:59 AM It’s often used to say “well done.” Mike_O/Shutterstock Achieving early retirement is easier said than done, and some prospective early retirees need a little motivation to get there. A Reddit thread revealed that some people in the early retirement community respond with “Go f— yourself” after hearing about someone’s early retirement or financial milestones. But the phrase is a joke among early (and aspiring) retirees; it’s really a way of saying “well done,” according to early retirees. Saving enough money to retire early and finally taking the plunge can be a long process. But there’s a lot that motivates early retirees to stay on track — like the prospect of having more time and a more flexible lifestyle. But there’s one more thing that motivates them, and it’s an unexpected, yet well-known offensive phrase: “Go f— yourself.” In 2017 in the financial independence and early retirement subreddit r/financialindependence, user jasonlong1212 shared his story of how he achieved financial independence by age 38 with more than $1 million in investments. And a lot of people responded with, “Go f— yourself.” To an outsider, that may seem crass. But really, it’s an inside joke in the early retirement community that some exchange as a way to encourage and congratulate each other. “Stop reporting the ‘go f— yourself’ comments, everyone. If you don’t realize, it is an inside joke in the FIRE [Financial Independence and Early Retirement] community meant as a form of congratulations. We’re not entirely without humor here. Congrats OP, and go f— yourself!” moderator bo_knows wrote. As early retiree Mr. Crazy Kicks, who retired at age 34, explained to Business Insider, when it comes to writing about personal finance and early retirement it’s hard to share experiences without someone thinking you’re “showing off.” “For example, when I write about how the financial decisions I’ve made enable me to take a month out of the year to go surfing in Costa Rica, my friend is more likely to say ‘go f— yourself,’ rather than ‘well deserved,'” he told Business Insider. “Obviously, I’m just trying to share how an exciting early retirement is possible on a limited budget, and he ultimately takes it as motivation to achieve financial independence and do the same.” He added: “The thing is, my surf trip might not be the most pleasurable thing to read about first thing in the office on a Monday morning. Hence, ‘go f— yourself’ from my friend would really be a way of saying ‘well done outletcanadagoose.biz , you made me a bit jealous, thanks for the motivation.'” Justin McCurry, who retired at age 33 as a self-made millionaire, likens the phrase, in this context, to the ultimate expression of jealousy. “You congratulate the person, then insult them because you’re jealous of what they have achieved,” he told Business Insider. “Bo_knows is a moderator and he’s asking people to stop reporting it since it’s a known joke and not meant in a cruel or nasty way at all outletcanadagoose ,” he added. “Kind of a weird thing they do over there, but each little tribe has their own rituals.” SEE ALSO: 7 things no one tells you about early retirement DON'T MISS: How much money you need to retire early depends almost entirely on 2 factors NOW WATCH: 'They've got to make a choice': Twitter users slam a top Republican for comparing the cost of a new iPhone to healthcare canada goose parka